Thursday, May 29, 2014

The Take 5 Series helps Christian Lifers grow somewhere on purpose in 5 minutes or less. 


Six Symptoms of Insecurity

1. Comparison - We begin to compare ourselves to others and score ourselves against their achievements.

2. Compensation - We feel like victims and must now compensate for our losses of inferiority.

3. Competition - We drift into self-centered patterns, consumed by outdoing others to receive attention and rewards.

4. Compulsion - You are driven to perform compulsively to gain others' approval, you are a people-pleaser.

5. Condemnation - The judgmental attitude of yourself or others, resulitng in self-pity or self-conceiet.

6. Control - In order to validate your own worth, you feel as though you must take charge, protect your own interests and monopolize situations.

4 Keys to Personal Security

1. Key One - IDENTITY - you must tie your self-worth to your identity in Christ, not people or performance
2. Key Two - BROKENNESS - you must allow God to break you of self-sufficiency and self-promotion
3. Key Three - PURPOSE - you must discover and practice your God-given purpose in life, not someone else's
4. Key Four - GIVING AND RECEIVING "THE BLESSING" - you must learn to let others love and bless you, and to do the same for them

Source: Grow Series 2 lesson

Thursday, May 22, 2014

Take 5 Series - "The Lawyer Who Didn't Lie"


A busload of lawyers careened off a mountain road and tumbled over a cliff. The bus was destroyed and there were no survivors. Tragically, the bus was only half full.

Though there are a number of wonderful attorneys, as the joke above indicates, members of the legal profession are often subjected to a negative stereotype. They’re suspected of saying whatever will help them win a case rather than speaking honestly. Apparently, this popular fiction—of the dishonesty of lawyers—has held steady over the years. Himself an attorney, Abraham Lincoln wrote the following notes in 1850 when preparing a speech to aspiring lawyers…

There is a vague popular belief that lawyers are necessarily dishonest…the impression is common, almost universal. Let no young man choosing the law for a calling for a moment yield to the popular belief---resolve to be honest at all events; and if in your own judgment you cannot be an honest lawyer, resolve to be honest without being a lawyer.

Lincoln appears to have practiced what he preached. Amazingly, he earned his nickname, “Honest Abe,” despite working in two professions commonly accused of ignoring the truth: law and politics.
Even as a young man, Lincoln’s honest character was evident. In his twenties, Lincoln partnered with William Berry to open a grocery store. The business failed, and Berry died shortly thereafter, leaving Lincoln with the entire debt. At the time, debtors frequently skipped town in the middle of the night, moving westward into the American frontier in order to avoid repaying their loans.  However, Lincoln accepted his financial responsibility. Although it took him roughly a decade, he diligently paid back every dollar that he owed.

Lincoln’s reputation for honesty followed him into politics. When Stephen Douglas heard he would be running against Lincoln for a seat in the US Senate, he acknowledged Lincoln as a formidable foe. “I shall have my hands full. He is the strong man of his party—full of wit, facts, dates—and the best stump speaker, with his droll ways and dry jokes, in the West.  He is as honest as he is shrewd, and if I beat him my victory will be hardly won.”

Lincoln’s reputation for absolute honesty gave him an edge as a leader. People might disagree with him, but they couldn’t question his integrity. His character was indisputable.

In leadership, there’s an ever-present temptation to bend the truth, to enter moral gray zones, and to allow pragmatic concerns to overrule ethical considerations. With every falsehood, however, we erode our character and sacrifice the moral high ground. Dishonesty undercuts our credibility and undermines our influences.

Thought to Ponder

In your profession, when are you likely to face pressure to disregard the truth? What will enable you to resist those pressures?

Source: The John Maxwell Co. - click here


Monday, May 19, 2014

Growing Somewhere on Purpose

PURE JOY
One of the many gifts that God has given me is the joy of being the Discipleship Pastor at Christian Life Church. I can honestly say that these are the best times in my adult ministry life. I love what I do and with whom I am doing it. And the best part is that it's all FOR Jesus, it's all ABOUT Jesus, and it's all BECAUSE of Jesus. So, thank God and thank you for allowing me to serve CLC in this capacity.

THE BIG Q
Pastor Ron has trained the pastoral team to run our ministry objectives through the framework of a single question. We call it "The Big Question" or "The Big Q" for short. The question we consider as we think about helping people in their walk with Christ is - "what do you want or need and how can we serve you best?"  This is the guiding question and grid from which the Journey Discipleship Experience centers around. I would love to hear your answer to this question so we can "connect the dots" and help you grow as a believer in Jesus.

COOL TOOLS
I will featuring a lot of cool tools that I encounter in my discipleship travels on this blog. There is so much good stuff out there on the web, in iOS and Android apps, books, podcasts, movies, video content, and on and on. I would love to help sift through that for you and bring you the best of the best discipleship resources to enrich your walk daily walk with the Lord.

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Let's build the kingdom together, one friendship at a time!

David


David Robertson |  <O})>< | Discipleship Pastor | Christian Life Church